Solved: Which program do you want to use...

So glad to find this forum! I hope someone here knows the answer to my question...

Toshiba Satellite running XP Pro SP3

Each time I use a CD, DVD, USB stick, or attach my iPhone, a box comes up asking me either what I want to do, or what program I want to use, etc. I've used TweakUI to change all the Auto-Play choices... but it still appears.

Is there any way to shut that completely off?? so I never have to see it again??!

Thanks much :)